“Agar Kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho to puri kayanat usey Tumse
milane ki koshish mein lag jati hai”
When you really desire something from the
heart and soul, all the universe conspires you to achieve it"- Paulo
Coelho, the Alchemist
That is what happened to me. As I started
this week’s theme, I received a package. The ruckus in the house was
astonishing. My husband kept going around asking who had ordered it. The
package was in my name but since I don’t order without informing, the mystery
was maintained, till I took the package in the hands only to announce that it’s
a book. (I have no idea why everyone thought it will burst open into flames if
they touch it.) My sister immediately interjected, Oh it would be from Prabhat!
Prabhat bhaiya, a veteran journalist and an author himself, had sent me a list of books a couple of weeks
back. I was reading one of them. We discussed Tuesday with Morrie. But never
had I imagined that this will become my Christmas gift.
I love receiving books as gifts. For me, if
someone gifts a book they deem me worthy of sharing knowledge. I feel honoured.
Tuesdays with Morrie is all about celebrating
death. It relieves a person of the drudgery of life and truly explains what is
important. As I read the book I am reminded of a discussion I had with a friend
some 20 years backs. (Yes that is what this book will do to you, take you down
the memory lanes on your own conversations and experience about death)
A friend of mine in a manner of speech said, “I
am dead sure of it.” Now me being me, quickly stopped him and asked, ‘why dead
sure, why not life sure”. His point was death is the only certainty and my
point was so is life. Obviously, we did
not take the discussion any further. (what do you expect of a couple of 20 yrs
old?)
The message though is not very different. If
you knew that today would be your last day, how would you want to live? Are you
living a life of regrets and guilts?
The idea is to choose your priorities. Choose
Love, compassion, kindness, gratitude for self and others.
Bhaiya’s
gesture of giving me this book makes me feel honoured and humbled at the same
time. There is so much I need to learn and I can only feel grateful that I have
mentors and guides like Prabhat bhaiya who are helping me through my journey.
i have read this book but never thought Death can be celebrating. I just lost a loved one and was regretting that i could not got there to see him and feeling bad and guilty. but he was going through painful time. and Although I would like him to be with us but am also relieved that he does not have to face that pain again. Celebrate life.
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